TLDR
After ABC scrapped Taylor Frankie Paul’s already filmed season of “The Bachelorette” over a newly surfaced 2023 violence video, the embattled influencer stepped out in a winking sweatshirt as custody drama and legal threats swirl.
A Season Pulled off TV
Taylor Frankie Paul was supposed to be the new face of “The Bachelorette.” Instead, her entire season was quietly shelved after TMZ released 2023 cellphone footage that shows her attacking ex Dakota Mortensen with a chair while her young daughter cries nearby.
The season, which had already wrapped, was set to debut on ABC. Page Six reports that network bosses yanked it after the video went public, and insiders are now whispering about the financial fallout. One industry source claimed to the outlet that the loss could be massive, saying, “It could be $50 million [or more]. Someone’s gotta get fired from this. It’s ridiculous.”
According to TMZ, five men from Paul’s unaired cast are considering legal action against ABC and Warner Bros. Discovery. They reportedly feel they were placed in unsafe, intimate situations with a lead whose violent history had not been disclosed to them.
A Sweatshirt and a Signal
Against that backdrop, Paul, 31, did not disappear from public view. Photographers caught her in Salt Lake City in an oversized Nodpod sweatshirt printed with the phrase “Can’t Wait To Sleep With You,” layered over a long pink T-shirt and baggy pants.

She wore her brunette hair in loose waves, sunglasses shielding her eyes, and she grinned for the cameras. The image was striking. A woman whose romantic life had just cost a network tens of millions, strolling in a flirty sleep-themed sweatshirt that reads like a double entendre.
For ABC, the optics complicate any future relationship with the onetime TikTok “momfluencer” turned reality lead. For Nodpod, it is an unexpected product placement amid a franchise crisis. For Paul, it reads like a visual message to viewers who have followed her very public highs and lows since “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.”
Custody, Claims, and Denials
Off camera, the stakes are far higher than a lost season. Mortensen, who shares a 2-year-old son, Ever, with Paul, has filed for an order of protection, and Page Six reports she temporarily lost custody of the toddler after the filing.

In a statement issued through a spokesperson, Paul framed the moment as part of a longer private battle. “Taylor is very grateful for ABC’s support as she prioritizes her family’s safety and security,” the rep told Page Six, adding that after “years of silently suffering extensive mental and physical abuse as well as threats of retaliation, Taylor is finally gaining the strength to face her accuser and taking steps to ensure that she and her children are protected from any further harm.”
Mortensen forcefully rejects that description of their relationship. “I am, unfortunately, used to these baseless claims about me and our relationship, which I categorically deny,” he told Page Six, explaining that he is focused on their son and “his safety” and hoping Paul will do the same.
A source close to Paul told the outlet she spent years afraid of when that 2023 footage would surface. Now that it has, every part of her life, from custody to career, is under public review.
What Comes Next for Taylor
For Bachelor Nation, the scrapped season is a first. ABC must find a way to fill a primetime hole, calm angry contestants, and reassure advertisers who bought into a love story that will never air. Insiders told Page Six that the financial hit could reach into the tens of millions.
For Paul, the road back is less clear. She still has a social media following, brand relationships, and a name that trends on its own. Yet she now carries the label of the Bachelorette who never was, tied to a viral video, a custody fight, and dueling narratives about what really happened behind closed doors.
That blue sweatshirt, loud lettering splashed across her back, is not a legal filing or a statement from counsel. It is something more elusive. A reminder that in modern celebrity culture, even as lawyers circle and networks cut their losses, the image a star projects in a single street-style photo can shape the story the public remembers.
Do you think Taylor, Frankie, or Paul can rebuild their public image after losing their season of “The Bachelorette,” or will this controversy define them long-term?