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Melissa Gilbert says she knew about Timothy Busfield’s past sexual assault allegations before their 2013 wedding, and insists she is informed, not complicit, as he fights new criminal charges involving children.
For many viewers, Melissa Gilbert will always be the girl from “Little House on the Prairie.” Now, at 61, she is walking into a very different kind of living room conversation, publicly defending her husband, actor and director Timothy Busfield, while acknowledging that she knew about serious allegations in his past before she ever said, “I do.”
Speaking on “Good Morning America,” Gilbert told George Stephanopoulos that she researched Busfield before their 2013 wedding and confronted him directly.
“I did not go into this relationship blind,” she said. “I’m neither naive nor am I complicit. I talked to him about it. I asked him questions about it.”
Gilbert said the allegations involving Busfield had “been out in the ether for a very long time,” referencing accusations dating back to 1994 and again in 2012. She said she listened to his version of events and believes it.
“I heard his side of the story, which nobody has ever heard, which is the truth,” she told Stephanopoulos, adding that “when the time is right, and that is not now, Tim will tell the truth of all of these past allegations when he needs to.”
The new interview is Gilbert’s first since Busfield’s January arrest. The “West Wing” alum, now 68, was taken into custody on charges of child abuse and criminal sexual contact of a minor, tied to allegations that he inappropriately touched two 7-year-old twin actors while working on the Fox drama “Cleaning Lady.”
Prosecutors later filed four counts of criminal sexual contact of a child under the age of 13, tied to alleged abuse dating back to 2022. Busfield has pleaded not guilty and has denied what he has called “horrible” allegations. The case is ongoing, and he is presumed innocent unless proven otherwise in court.
Through it all, Gilbert has chosen visible unity. She has walked into court with him, appeared at his side after a judge granted pretrial release, and now taken her defense of him to national television.
She described the scandal as “hell” and “the most traumatizing experience” of her life. “Our life as we knew it is done,” she said. “We are grieving what we had, all of our plans, all of our dreams, all of our ideas, all of our projects. For Tim, it is done. He is canceled. Even if he is exonerated, he will always be that guy.”
The emotional center of Gilbert’s message is unwavering trust in the man she married. She called Busfield “the last person in the world who would hurt a child” and said no one knows him better than she does.
“He is nothing if not completely honest with me,” she said. “I trust him with my children’s lives, with my grandchildren’s lives, my nieces and nephews. He is an honorable, caring, generous human being.”
It is a complicated public stance. As a former child star speaking about alleged harm to children, Gilbert is balancing empathy for the gravity of the claims with fierce loyalty to her partner and his reputation. She stresses that she did her own homework before marrying him, and that her choice to stand by him now is not, in her words, blind.
What comes next will play out in a courtroom, not on a soundstage. Busfield’s legal fate remains undecided, but Gilbert seems certain of one thing. The life and career they built together belong to the past, and their future, whatever it looks like, will unfold under the shadow of these allegations.
If you or someone you know is affected by issues raised in this story, you can call the Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-330-0226.
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